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what is required to overcome this
Change your father in law
Seriously though, the cable (and the probably the mcb in the CU) for the immersion heater is not up to the job, by a huge margin. As a guide, the shower cable should be the same size as one connected to a standalone electric cooker (ie the biggest cable in the house). Unless your father in law is an electrician, I would leave the shower unpowered (did he fit a DP pullcord switch?) and get an electrician to wire it up.
The existing cable is good enough to cope with switching the shower valve on and powering the light, etc, but when you ask for heat, the mcb in the consumer unit will sense a current demand well beyond a safe level and it will trip out. Its not a safe circuit.